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Stacie Fanelli, LCSW
This blog is a collection of shower-thoughts that became info-dumps, clinical curiosities and rabbit holes, and most importantly, pictures of my dogs. Please enjoy!
Have you ever had a small idea, a possibility, a "maybe" turn into something that felt emotionally real long before there was any evidence that it would actually happen? When it didn't work out, did the devastation feel wildly out of proportion to what actually occurred? If so, this may not be about being naive or idealistic. For some people, this pattern is shaped by how OCD relates to uncertainty, imagination, and emotional regulation. OCD is often misunderstood as a disord
How low compassionate empathy can set the stage for moral OCD Most of us assume (and are taught) that caring about other people is a feeling, a warm, emotional pull that says, “Go comfort them. Go help. Go be there." We learn that good people are caring people, and to care means to be distressed enough by someone else's distress that you feel compelled to take action to alleviate it if you can. But that isn’t how everyone’s mind works, and if that's surprising to you, it's li